How to Be Patient with Love
A 5-step program to cultivate patience in love, focusing on self-improvement, understanding desires, being present, opening your mind, and focusing on your own journey.
Program Modules
Step 1: Perfect Yourself
Continue to become the best version of you, aligning with the qualities you seek in a partner. Includes gamified goal setting and tracking.
Identify Desired Qualities & Set Goals
WeeklyList the top 3 qualities you seek in a partner. For each quality, set a SMART goal for yourself.
“If you intend to Harbor relationships with positive dedicated people become a positive and dedicated person.”
Visualize Success
DailySpend 5 minutes each day visualizing yourself embodying these qualities and attracting the kind of partner you desire.
Step 2: Ask Yourself Why
Explore the reasons behind your desire for love and ensure your motivations are genuine. Includes a habit stacking exercise.
Identify Your Needs & Habit Stacking
WeeklyWrite down what you truly seek from a loving relationship. Then, choose an existing habit (e.g., brushing your teeth) and 'stack' a small action related to your relationship goals onto it.
“ask yourself what exactly are you looking for and why”
Step 3: Be
Be present and position yourself to receive the perfect situation by taking action and becoming more of who you are. Includes gamified time tracking for hobbies.
Engage in Activities You Enjoy & Track Your Time
WeeklyMake time for hobbies and interests that make you feel alive. Track your time spent on these activities.
“to be is to become more of who you are because doing so is positioning yourself to receive what this reality has reserved for you”
Mindful Moment
DailyTake 5 minutes each day for a mindful breathing exercise.
Step 4: Open Your Mind
Let go of preconceived notions of what love should be and allow it to manifest in practice. Includes a quiz to challenge expectations.
Challenge Your Expectations - Take the Quiz!
WeeklyIdentify and question your specific requirements and desires. Take the quiz to evaluate your expectations.
“because you are waiting for something specific you never realize all of the opportunity being sent your way”
Step 5: Mind Your Own Journey
Focus on harvesting your own reality rather than comparing yourself to others. Includes a challenge to reduce social media usage.
Limit Social Media Comparison - Challenge!
WeeklyReduce time spent comparing your life to others on social media. Participate in a week-long challenge.
“if you are always focused on watching others and not harvesting your own reality as a result you will simply never find what you are looking for”
What You'll Accomplish
- Understand the importance of self-improvement in attracting love.
- Identify the underlying motivations for seeking love.
- Cultivate presence and take action to position oneself for positive relationships.
- Challenge limiting beliefs and open the mind to different forms of love.
- Focus on personal growth and avoid comparing oneself to others.
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