Thrive in '25: Control What You Can
A program designed to help you thrive by focusing on what you can control and releasing what you can't, drawing on Stoic philosophy and practical daily actions. This initiative encourages community support and personal growth, fostering a sense of empowerment and well-being amidst life's challenges. It promotes the cultivation of habits, routines, and boundaries to manage overwhelm, stress, and frustration, and to create personal space for calm and safety, ultimately connecting participants through shared experiences and mutual support. **Disclaimer:** This program provides guidance and support for personal growth and well-being. It is not a substitute for professional medical or psychological advice. Consult with qualified healthcare professionals for any health concerns.
Program Modules
Laying the Foundation: Understanding Control & Stoicism
In this module, we'll lay the groundwork for thriving by exploring the core principles of Stoicism. You'll learn how to distinguish between what you can and cannot control, a fundamental step in managing stress and building resilience. We'll delve into practical applications of these principles in your daily life. As Marget says, it's all about 'release what you cannot control and then ground yourself with the things that you can do.'
Identify Your Control Factors: A Daily Reflection
DailyStart each day by reflecting on the things you can and cannot control. This exercise helps you focus your energy where it matters. Create two lists: 'Things I Can Control' and 'Things I Cannot Control'. We'll use implementation intentions - 'If X, then I will do Y' - to solidify this habit.
Module 1 Reflection: Stoicism in Action
WeeklyTake some time to consider these questions: * What did you learn about control? * How has listing what you can/cannot control affected your thinking? * In what specific situation will you make a change to your behavior?
Building Your Sanctuary: Daily Rituals and Habits
As Marget emphasizes, 'Do some things that become habitual, that become routines.' This module helps you create routines and habits that support your well-being and focus. We'll incorporate habit-building techniques to ensure these practices stick. A key focus is creating a 'personal space and environment where you can go' to feel safe and calm.
Daily Habits & Routines
DailyThis routine combines several key daily habits for a comprehensive approach to well-being.
Your Personal Sanctuary
WeeklyCreate and visit your personal space to feel safe and calm. Consider what elements make this space calming and what boundaries you need to protect it.
Treat Yourself: Mindful Retail Therapy
WeeklyTreat yourself to a small, uplifting purchase. Engage in retail therapy mindfully.
Connecting with Goodness: Gratitude & Kindness
Cultivate gratitude and perform small acts of kindness to enhance your well-being. As Marget says, kindness can help create a feeling like 'you're thriving because you're connecting with people.' We will also add the practice of savoring.
Gratitude Check-In & Savoring
DailyRegularly perform a gratitude check-in, and savor the present.
Small Acts of Kindness
DailyEngage in small acts of kindness.
Stepping into Your Power: Courage & Community
Embrace courage, focus on action, and build community for support. Marget challenges you to 'be brave' and reminds us that 'we are stronger together.' This module emphasizes reframing challenges and connecting with others.
Courageous Action: One Small Step
WeeklyFocus on one small, concrete action at a time. This is about building momentum, not achieving perfection.
Community Connection: Reach Out and Support
WeeklyConnect with and support others.
Community Discussion: Sharing Our Courage
WeeklyJoin the community discussion to share your experiences with courageous action and community building. What challenges have you faced, and how have you overcome them? What are your favorite tips and strategies?
What You'll Accomplish
- Identify areas of control in your life.
- Apply Stoic principles to daily actions.
- Establish beneficial routines and habits.
- Cultivate gratitude and practice kindness.
- Embrace courage and build community support.
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